The mistakes of others

2020-01-13

Maybe before you can accept your own mistakes, you need to become accepting of the mistakes of others. If you berate someone else after they screw up, how can you possibly expect to be understanding toward yourself?

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An otherwise beautiful moment

2020-01-12

I’m sitting on my couch. It’s the weekend, and the silence is palpable. The dogs are asleep. The cat is behind me purring for no reason. The loudest sounds are gentle breathing and the low drone of my computer. I slept in and am still in my pyjamas and I’m taking some time to write with a cup of tea. I wouldn’t change anything about it.

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Deserving

2020-01-11

There are certain things that people deserve. Everyone deserves to be loved. Everyone deserves to be treated with a certain amount of respect. Everyone deserves a certain amount of benefit of the doubt. Everyone deserves to be happy.

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Unidentifiably great

2020-01-10

Greatness may not look like greatness at first glance, even to you. When success comes knocking at your door, it’s not likely to arrive with fireworks and fanfare. It’s likely to arrive as an invitation to a thousand hours of brutal failure. It’s the person you never expected making the offer nobody in their right mind would accept.

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Optimism is hard

2020-01-08

I’m so tired and ashamed of still being stuck in the weight gain-weight loss cycle. I’ve been fighting with it for years and it feels like, at some point, whether it’s reasonable or not, it must say something about me.

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Intentions vs. circumstances

2020-01-07

Your intentions matter, but they aren’t the primary factor in determining who you will be. Your circumstances play a much larger role in determining the things you learn, the skills you acquire, and the things you value.

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The mindfulness magic trick

2020-01-06

My first time going axe throwing I was terrible at it. I only managed to sink the axe into the target maybe 20% of the time. I threw a lot of axes that went sideways and just bounced off. It felt ridiculous. I was so self-conscious about it that I didn’t even notice the same thing was happening to everyone else.

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