You are your own best resource
If you were giving advice to someone with your problems, what would you tell them to do? I know this can be a frustrating exercise, but give it a shot. What would you say if they came back with the same reasons that you have for why it won’t work? Give the advice to a stuffed animal or a cartoon character or a picture of yourself. Say it out loud. Outline your advice exactly, collect your excuses and figure out what advice you’d give about getting around them. Maybe you’ll learn someting.