It's not for you


Everyone knows that you can’t please everyone all the time.

But there’s a corollary. If someone does something and it’s obvious they’re trying to make people happy, and you’re unhappy, that means this one’s not for you. Take a deep breath, relax and let it go.

Don’t yell. Don’t whine. Don’t berate. Don’t even suggest, unless they ask. If you think they did a bad job, that’s fine. It wasn’t for you.

If you’re still sure it was all wrong, do it yourself. Lead by example!